3/23/12

Flower Friday---In Shades of Grey

I am feeling a bit blue today.


No big thing, just a bit fuzzy in the head.

  
I look for inspiration in the little things.


I try to remember to feel grateful.


Most times, it works.
Today it did.

Thanks so much for checking in this week.  
Have a wonderful weekend.
xoxo

3/22/12

Play Time

I am still working on cleaning out my old photo files on the computer.  What happens though is that I find old pics that I forgot about and then start messing around with them using new tricks that I have learned.

Look at this beauty, from last summer!
The first is almost as is straight out of the camera, I just slightly saturated the colors and then lightened the skin tone.



On the one above I did a heavy black and white filter but at about 70% effect, which I really like the way this looks even if it is a bit dated.  I also used this on the pics from the twirly skirt post.

And then, believe it or not, I think this is my favorite, layering on the charcoal black and white at 100% effect but just slightly lowering the contrast.  

It's fun, learning these new things and making the time to play around.  Eventually I will go and take some classes, but in the meantime, I am learning as I go.

Which is your favorite?  If anybody has any suggestions for some on-line courses, I would love to hear about them.

Have a great day!

3/21/12

Puppy Love

I am so excited........I am off to a shoot for a lovely young couple and their four legged companion. 

I love dogs....they are just always so...so...so enthusiastic about everything...

 ...and accepting, and trusting....


....and just plain sweet.

Don't ya think?





3/20/12

Forecast Looks Bright



It's hard to recognize the seasons sometimes here and you can never really be too sure what you're going to get anyway.  Today it is bright and sunny for sure, but colder than it has been for most of the winter!

No matter, I am doing some spring cleaning.  
Going through old photo files and tackling some edits.

I found these from last year, some dresses to hand down to my friend's little girl but they were my girl's favorites so I took some photos of them and then felt ok passing them along.  

I love the lightness of being these photos have in them.


Happy First Day Of Spring!!!!

3/19/12

Quiet Time

I live for these moments.  
This one pictured, where the girls are oh so quiet and satisfied.  
No TV, no computers, no music, no games and no fighting--especially the no fighting part!


But also for the moment I am in, right now.  No one is in the house and it is so quiet, except for the timer which will tell me when the noodles are done.  Dinner is ready and waiting, house is clean, all of the crap which is usually strewn about the place is put away and I am sitting here at my desk, glass of Pinot at my side, spending a moment doing what I love to do (one of the many things)--working on my photography and writing a blog post.

Please do not misunderstand, I am not bragging, because truthfully, this rarely happens.  But it is such a nice feeling that I am completely inspired to make it happen again...and again.....and again.  Like, every night!?

Do I ask for too much?

I don't think so.  You know what they say, "Write It Down, Make It Happen".  So I am writing it down.

Tell me what your bliss moments are.

Happy Monday--see you tomorrow--;)

3/16/12

Flower Friday--In The Distance



























I really love this photo.  These flowers were from Valentine's Day.  I took a ton of different shots; close up, different angles, different filters, etc.  But this one is my favorite, it's shot from much farther back than I usually shoot from.  It makes me think of what's going on with me, I can see clearly what my goals are and they look really great, but it's still just a bit more work to get there.

So, for my next 28 day challenge I will be blogging every day for 28 days!  (except Saturday and Sunday) Exciting for me!  I love to blog, I love reading other blogs.  I think it is such an awesome, supportive community and I have wanted to be a part of it for a long time.  I have not really been able to integrate it into my daily routine successfully yet.  I think this new challenge will make that happen.  Perhaps I will find out it will be as easy as the exercise challenge was/is.  I hope so, I hope you will come along for the ride.

Happy Friday, have an amazing weekend.  xoxo


3/14/12

Workout Wednesday--Mission Accomplished

On February 8th I declared I was starting a 28 day Exercise Challenge, and I declared it to the world.  Well, to the smattering of folks who read this blog and my friends on Facebrag--I mean book--Facebook.  So, here, today, on March 14th, a whole week past the 28th day, I can say, "HURRAY!, I DID IT!", and I am still doing it.  Exercising I mean, wink wink.  I have another thing to say that may surprise you, it was easy.  

That's right, I said it.  It was easy.

I had originally thought that this was going to turn into some epic adventure and I was going to be sharing long emotional tales of reaching new levels of self awareness through exercise and the "challenge" of making it happen and sticking to it.  I even, up until the moment that I sat down to write this post, thought that I might have something more enlightened to say.  And then it hit me, this has been easy to do.  For me.  It might be different for you, but I hope not.

So instead of a sentimental journey I am going to leave you with a few pointers that I have discovered along the way.  I am not an expert, but these things worked for me.

*  Forgive yourself and adapt as needed--the original rules I set for myself were to workout nearly every single day for the entire 28 days.  The very first week I started the girls got sick and then I got sick so I was messed up from the very beginning.  I could have just said "shod it all" (that's British) but I didn't, I rearranged my own rules and continued on and didn't feel guilty about it.  Much.

*  Find some support--I spoke up on Facebook and here on my blog and asked others to join in for two reasons, one to make myself accountable and two, to find people who would kind of cheer me on along the way.  A really unexpected bonus came from this; I found a running partner who is really quite perfect for me in that she runs much differently (better) than I ever did and she is also positive and encouraging and most-most importantly..she shows up!  We are in the middle of training for a 10k--say wha?!

*  Push yourself, but don't kill yourself--start slowly.  You won't do any workouts at all if you find yourself with a sprained back or swollen knees or disjointed shoulders at the very start of your "challenge".  Listen to your body, use common sense, save the hard sprints and the heavy weights for a little further down the line.  Right after that first week of illness I jumped in with added zeal fueled by guilt from the thought of failure and my knees and my ankle jumped up and said, "slow down old woman, we got a few + years in us still but not at this pace!".  Yes, they really did say that.

*  Release any expectations--so hard to do.  I have not lost any weight, I still do not fit into my skinny jeans from two years ago and some things still shake like Jello squares.  It's ok.  I feeeel good.  I look better.  I have more energy and I have more patience with everyone, even the ridiculous LA drivers.  I try very hard to just make a plan for tomorrow to do something; a hike-a run-a few sit-ups and stretches and not turn it into a big production.  You can add on and change as you go.

I have more but sometimes less is more so I will leave it at that for now.  Besides, this is the longest post of the century and I am starting to bore myself.

I have love for all of you, (there's the emotion, I knew it was in there somewhere), and I say thanks for the support, the "likes", the messages, the e-mails and the joiners.

This is me, happy.


I really really hope that if you have been meaning to fit exercise back into your life, or into your life for the first time, that you find a way to do it, a way that works for you and I want you to know you can count on me for encouragement--"ENCOURAGEMENT!"--as the yoga dude from Couples Retreat would say.

Happy Wednesday, see you on the hill.

3/13/12

Borrowed Words

 

I found this quote over on one of my favorite blogs and snatched it right away.  
I find this to be so true and wish I would have learned it sooner in my life.  I always thought that things just happened if you were naturally good at them.  
Silly me.  
The good news?  I know it now and really KNOW it.  So much so that I try things over and over and when they don't work out as I think they should have I re-adjust and try it again.  

For more fabulous quotes and life lessons and beautiful pictures and fantastic healthy recipes, visit The Silver Pen, it's a fabulous place to lose yourself with a cup of tea.

3/12/12

Magic Monday



I love Mondays, I look forward to them the way most folks look forward to Friday.


Mondays are my do-over day, makeover day, start fresh-clean slate type of day.  


It's like Happy New Year every week.  
I get to start a new to-do list (ahem) or recycle the one I didn't quite finish last week.


Clean out the inbox, schedule play dates and Doc appointments and do other worky-type stuff that isn't really fun, but satisfying to check off a list.


This Monday is a day that I am taking all of my scattered, in-my-head thoughts and putting them into a plan of action for another 28 day challenge!!  
The 28 Day Exercise Challenge was (is) such a success (I will tell you all about that on Wednesday) that I have plans for many more, maybe even a challenge a month for the year of 2012. 
Fun, right!?


Put on your Magic Monday thinking cap and pick something that you want to do but haven't found the time, motivation or confidence to do it and make it into a challenge for yourself. 

I will share mine with you on Thursday, keep me posted on yours...

...and...

...twirl your skirts ladies, it's Monday!!